February 16, 2019
Why Girl Twin Solutions?
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If I run into anyone who knows of my hometown of Healy, Kan., I will refer to myself as the girl twin. Instead of sharing
I was Gary Brooks' daughter (he had two) or his child (he had three), I simply say I'm the girl twin. In a community of less
than 300, my twin brother and I were one of few twin sets who lived there all of our 18 years of childhood. I believe the
next set closest in age were still decades apart from us. Thus begins my most unique claim to fame.
I love being a twin
- while we never experienced those "twin moments" some people share, I do find it interesting that I had to learn
to refer to myself in the singular form. Even today, I slip into "we" or "us" when referring to my childhood.
the most impactful part of sharing my childhood with another was the continuous training of teamwork. Sibling interaction
plays a huge role in development, and I would argue being a twin, especially when growing up in such a small town, helped
me be more effective when working with others.
Stay tune for more updates on this new venture!
December 1, 2018
A new journey
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For the past two summers, I taught at the "Chamber Institute;" this is training I completed in 2014, and so I'm
very proud to continue to be a part of this educational experience.
While in Madison, I met a presenter and publisher
Tremendous Tracey Jones. I've always wanted to write a book (and sing on Broadway and win the lottery and...) so I bombarded
her with many questions. Turns out, Tracey specializes in helping first-time writers get organized. This initial conversation
lead to a half-hour phone call almost 6 months later and we have a game plan. A plan that will eventually lead to a book (I
Since then, my excitement and energy levels have skyrocketed. I haven't felt this euphoric since my dating days
(to my husband, of course). It's good to feel so purposeful while fulfilling a lifelong passion.
February 7, 2018
Please pass the brakes
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Early in my career, I attended a management seminar that helped me control my own emotional responses during stressful
situations. One strategy I have implemented often is to monitor the tone of my voice so that I don't come across as too intense
or sharp. In order to do this, our instructor told us to imagine the tone we use when asking someone to "please pass
the butter." This advice registered with me, because this tone was firm, clear and professional without adding unnecessary,
conflictual or emotional undertones.
I never would have dreamed this advice would come in handy with my license-in-hand,
ready-to-drive-at-every-possible-moment son. Tonight, while driving through the patchy snow-packed city roads, I heard myself
say calmly and quite blandly, "Honey, if you don't start to break soon, you will crash into the car in front of us."
to management training, I may actually survive my teenage son's learning permit stage.
February 4, 2018
Gordon's Big Adventure
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Yesterday, Gordon, the smallest of our two dogs, escaped from our backyard. Twice.
Picture if you will a mutt that
looks like Disney's The Tramp crossed with the Wizard of Oz's Toto and you have our seven-pound, rust-colored, highly-spirited
Because Gordon is smaller than most rabbits, he is like the Houdini of dogs, and his artistry at escaping numerous
challenges is quite admirable. We still have no idea where he escaped from our yard yesterday; this would explain the hodgepodge
of rocks, bricks and chicken wire scattered all around our fence.
When I think of this tiny, scrappy and fearless dog
enjoying his times of freedom yesterday, I cannot help but smile. While many details will never be known (I mean, did he get
to chase a rabbit or not?), I do know he got to meet a very nice lady who kindly brought him home after the first escape.
I'm sure it was a thrill for him to drive around in the police car, although my guess is the fun was hampered when he realized
the joy-ride ended at the vet's office.
Either way, the day ended with Gordon happily snuggled into his mommy's
lap, pooped after a day filled with such adventure. And his mommy was happy to have him home.
January 3, 2018
Learning from failure
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Yesterday, my son took his driver's test for his instructor's permit. And he failed the test. By one point.
into the License Office with a nervous, anxious boy and walked out with one simply devastated. Failing at anything can have
Even as adults in the professional world, we intellectually know that failure will happen. When it does,
we know we will learn from it and have the potential to grow to be stronger, smarter, faster, better. So, why then do we fear
failing as much as we do?
I'm sure many of you are like me this New Year, planning resolutions we will probably fail
before the month ends. As I mature (sounds kinder and less gray than age), I have come to realize the only true failure is
giving up or not trying at all. All those other times we label as failure really are just life's learning lessons.
today my son gave it another try. I'm happy to report that there is a new driver in our household!